EDUCATION: What City Kids Learned on My Farm: âHens donât lay on demand. Tomatoes arenât ripe in June. And animals donât care about your feelings.â “Overprotected as they are, a lot of city kids are missing out on so many important encounters with material reality: with death or danger or manual labor. These encounters can be unpleasant, even painful. Itâs understandable that we want to save our children from them. But they lose something essential when we do.”
Plus: “Hereâs one thing Iâve learned: children like being useful. They get a lot of freedom on the farm, but thereâs one rule: everyone has to do chores. We use real tools and do real work. I teach them how to scrub a water trough, haul hay, muck a stall. They discover that manual labor is enjoyable, especially when youâre taking care of something other than yourself. Parents often tell me later that their children boast about the work theyâve accomplished. . . . Children like becoming competent, even the ones who have to be cajoled into working. When they come for return visits, as so many do, they dive in with even more enthusiasm, eager to go through the motions of the work they now know so well. ‘We have to fill the waters, right?’ theyâll say. Or, best of all: ‘When do we get to shovel the poop?'”