I’M NOT LOOKING TO A FASHION DESIGNER to “keep my male ego in check.”

From the comments, a correction: “Blaming maleness for his being a jerk is itself a form of aggression and ego. Dude – you do these things not because you are a guy. Don’t think that you can shift the blame to your sex. You do these obnoxious things, you have this pride and sense of entitlement because of YOU, because YOU are the problem, YATA. There is nothing masculine about being an asshole. That’s not what real men do. That’s all on you.”