ROBIN HANSON ON STATUS LEADERSHIP. “Having a romantic partner is useful in many ways. You won’t be as lonely, you can ask them for advice, you can do activities together, and you can share transport and even a household with them. But if you look carefully, you will notice that many people don’t choose such partners mainly for their promise in such roles. They instead seek high status partners, who make them look good by association. Partners who are hot, funny, rich, powerful, etc. Similarly, our usual econ model of leaders also focuses on the many concrete things leaders can do for us.”