INTERNET HOAX ALERT: Several people suggested that my post on The Bachelor was based on a hoax, but Alex Rubalcava, who sent me the emails, said they were genuine. Well, both were right: Apparently the emails were genuine in origin, but altered by someone who passed them on. Read about it here. You can go to Alex Rubalcava’s site — which is what I linked to originally — and scroll down from here to find out more.