ADVICE TO WOMEN: Yes, ladies, it’s a wife’s job to make her husband happy. Interesting to see this in a place like YourTango. “What’s happened as a result has been brilliant. I started tuning much more actively into my husband — prioritizing him, touching him regularly (holding his hand, sitting very close to him, hugging him, rubbing his shoulders, etc), more actively praising and appreciating him, and — crucially — not letting my ego get the best of me and not letting my need to be right lead to Armageddon. As a result, I have managed to bring out the best in my husband. Our relationship has become light years better, and I feel much happier and more empowered.”