I WAS ONE OF THEIR LOYAL READERS: Back when I wasn’t out of the political closet, I read them assiduously.  Now Connie du Toit  is gone, and due to the nature of her final illness, Kim du Toit  is left with a mountain of bills and a life to rebuild… without the love or his life.  Bloggers don’t have insurance.  We just have each other, and our readers. Surviving Life Without Connie