YEAH, IT’S BAD ADVICE, FOR THE NERDS (WE PREFER GEEKS.):  I told a friend yesterday there is a war on competence.  That’s what this boils down to.  Hey, guys, if you’re intelligent and have geeky interests, you don’t know how to treat people and don’t care about feelings.  You heard it from the Washington Post first.  Oh, no, wait, my bad.  You heard it from stupid teachers and taunting classmates first. Hollywood has told women to date nerds for decades. It’s bad advice.