S.E. CUPP: Woman to woman: Stop hunting for a ‘feminist boyfriend.’ Instead, try to focus on finding someone who’s not a jerk. “Finding the perfect mate is hard enough as it is, without creating unattainable — in fact inadvisable — expectations. And at least according to her recent piece, ‘How to Find a Feminist Boyfriend,’ Bonos has imagined not only a man who probably doesn’t exist, but one that shouldn’t exist.”