21ST CENTURY RELATIONSHIPS: A woman I briefly dated is telling people I sent her crotch shots. But it wasn’t me! And she’s showing them to all of her friends. On the other hand, there’s this: “This person is much more well-appointed than I could ever hope to be. I feel like I’m in an impossible spot. I cannot exactly show everyone my more modest equipment to prove that this is not me.” Wait a while, and some of them will probably come back around and find out for themselves . . ..