DOESN’T THIS MEAN HIS CONSENT WAS BASED ON FRAUD, AND THE WHOLE MARRIAGE HAS BEEN ONE LONG RAPE? My husband doesn’t know I’m trans. “Now, four years later, Carlos and I are happy and madly in love! It has been a roller coaster, but we couldn’t be happier. But it’s this happiness that is causing me such pain because Carlos feels that it is time to add to our happy family. He is excited to be a father and his face lights up at the very thought. So how do I break his heart? How do I tell him that all of our trying has been in vain because, despite my best efforts to be the person I always felt I was, I’m still not who he thinks I am?”

Actually, I’m sure that doesn’t apply to members of special protected groups.