BILL BENNETT not making inroads into the Pickup Artist community. “So, a sincere plea to Bennett and his ilk: Get your heads out of the sand. You can start by repeating the following to yourself every morning in the mirror: What’s wrong with men? Nothing that isn’t also wrong with women. . . . Men don’t avoid marriage and family because they have a ‘maturity deficit’. They rationally avoid marriage and family because, as the institutions are currently constituted, they are a raw deal for men. . . . If conservatives are serious about restoring a traditional concept of manhood to the modern man, I have a few suggestions for them.”