BE FREE, MY FRIENDS: Why It’s OK For Men To Judge Women On Their Looks. “Would the world be a better place if being 60 lbs overweight didn’t matter? Sure. Would the world be a better place if 5’4″ men fared as well as 6″ tall men? Absolutely. Wouldn’t it be great if a male second grade teacher had as much status and appeal as the C.E.O. of a Fortune 500 company? Yep. But that’s not the world we live in.”